Game Theory #3: Rich Dad, Poor Dad

Theories of Success: Marshmallow Test & Mindset
📌 Walter Mitchell's Marshmallow Test revealed that children who could delay gratification (wait for two marshmallows) achieved better school performance, careers, stability, and longevity.
🧠 Carol Dweck's research highlights the importance of a growth mindset versus a fixed mindset; those with a growth mindset view failure as an opportunity to learn and try harder.
🛠️ K. Anders Ericsson's concept of deliberate practice emphasizes strategic, goal-oriented practice focused on identifying and improving weaknesses, rather than just long hours of work.

Correlation vs. Causation in Success Factors
➡️ Traits associated with success (e.g., early rising, self-control, resilience) are often correlated with success but do not *cause* it; success often *results* in these behaviors (e.g., being rich leads to more self-control).
💡 The Dunning-Kruger effect demonstrates that those with the lowest competence often overestimate their ability the most, making proper self-assessment difficult.

Socioeconomic Divide in Parenting and Trust
🗣️ Rich parents typically use a friendly attitude, high vocabulary, and longer sentences, fostering a sense of safety and respect in the child.
😟 Poor parents often use an authoritarian/command attitude due to environmental pressures (needing to obey authority figures like police/bosses), which can make children view the world as scary and stressful.
🤝 The marshmallow test, in this context, is reinterpreted as a test of trust in authority figures and the stability of one's environment.

Societal Hierarchy and Social Mobility
⚖️ Society operates as a hierarchy where the rich prioritize negotiation and maximizing outcomes, while the poor prioritize obedience and minimum outcomes for survival.
📉 Elite overproduction (too many ambitious elites and not enough top positions) drives revolutions, which are essentially a "game reset" where factions ally to clear debt, redistribute land, and end slavery.
🪜 Social mobility (the ability for talented people to climb the ladder) is the best form of governance for societal prosperity and stability, but existing elites eventually rig the system to ensure their children inherit power, leading to stagnation and conflict.

Key Points & Insights
➡️ Delayed gratification and self-control are highly correlated with long-term success across various life outcomes.
➡️ Adopting a growth mindset—seeing failure as a learning chance—is crucial for sustained effort and resilience.
➡️ Success is significantly influenced by socioeconomic background and the trust instilled by early parenting styles, which shape fundamental worldview and risk tolerance.
➡️ Historically, achieving upward social mobility from a poor background often requires high-risk actions like abandoning one's community or participating in high-stakes events like war or political upheaval.

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