The Core of Effective Leadership: Making People Feel Seen
📌 Great leadership fundamentally starts with making people feel seen and cared for, as illustrated by the speaker's early experience as a kindergarten teacher in Chicago.
💡 The speaker realized they almost failed as a leader by prioritizing systems and efficiency (process and profit) over people, leading to loneliness and team stagnation.
📣 Citing Simon Sinek, the video asserts that everyone is a leader responsible for someone else's success, regardless of their title (CEO to security desk).

The Epidemic of Workplace Detachment
📉 Currently, only 31% of employees are engaged, meaning 69% are not engaged, with 17% actively checked out of work.
😥 Key factors driving discontent, especially among workers under 35 (Gen Z), are the feeling that no one cares about them personally and a lack of encouragement for development.
📊 Only 39% of employees feel cared for at work, and just 30% strongly agree someone encourages their development.

Three Steps to Building a Thriving Community
👋 Greet Them: Simply using a person's name is powerful; research shows hearing one's name activates brain regions for attention, memory, and engagement.
❤️ Know Them: Invest effort to learn something personal about colleagues (e.g., marathon participation, family health checks) to make them feel uniquely noticed and valued.
🚀 Grow Them: Identify what team members naturally do well and help them do more of it; employees using their strengths are six times more likely to be engaged.

Key Points & Insights
➡️ The job of a leader is to build a community where members can thrive together, echoing lessons learned in kindergarten.
➡️ Leaders must deliberately work to balance team strengths and surround themselves with people who embody skills they lack, acknowledging personal weaknesses in soft skills.
➡️ The critical shift needed is moving from wanting to be taken care of (as an employee) to ensuring you are caring for your team members.
➡️ Actionable First Step: Help someone feel seen today by simply asking for their name and using it, remembering that "People won't care until they feel cared for."

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