The Value and Emotional Cost of Veterinary Euthanasia
📌 The most rewarding part of being a veterinarian is sending a critically ill patient home, feeling like watching magic happen.
🐾 Euthanasia, meaning "good death," is a kindness afforded in veterinary medicine, whether saving a life or ending suffering.
💔 The emotional cost of euthanasia manifests as various "fees" for owners, including the hindsight fee ("Did I do the right thing?") and the crystal ball fee (lamenting decisions without foresight).

Addressing Owner Grief and Guilt
❓ The betrayal fee occurs when owners feel euthanizing is betraying their pet's lifelong love; however, a peaceful ending when suffering is present is a kindness, not a betrayal.
🐕 When the veterinarian performed euthanasia on her own dog, Cooper, she experienced the same self-doubt ("Are you sure you made the right decision?") for three days, realizing the questioning came from the heart, not the mind.
💖 Grief is the natural price we pay for loving, and experiencing fees like hindsight or crystal ball guilt means the owner is grieving normally, not that they made a mistake.

Veterinary Coping Mechanisms and Professional Ethics
📉 Veterinarians face high emotional tolls; the suicide rate for vets is about twice the national average.
🚫 The first coping technique is refusing convenience or revenge euthanasia for healthy animals whose owners find them inconvenient or who have misbehaved (e.g., chewing shoes).
💧 The second technique is giving permission to feel everything experienced during difficult euthanasia cases (like a weeping Santa Claus or a police officer losing a canine partner), keeping the "grief vault" intentionally empty.
🌟 The final technique is resolving to live life up to the standards of purity and sincerity shown by the pets being sent peacefully to heaven, exemplified by actively showing love and enjoying simple rewards (like cookies).

Key Points & Insights
➡️ Euthanasia is an act of kindness to end suffering, even though it carries significant emotional costs (fees) for both owners and practitioners.
➡️ When owners question their decision post-euthanasia, they are experiencing normal grief; the decision was the best one possible with the information available at the time.
➡️ Vets must refuse euthanasia for convenience or anger, advising owners to seek shelter placement instead for healthy animals.
➡️ A critical technique for vets to manage emotional burden is to embrace and process grief immediately rather than suppressing it.

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