Gambling Addiction and Personal Struggle
📌 The speaker hid a raging sports gambling addiction for nine years from his wife, Erica, while accumulating significant debt, losing over a million dollars.
😢 His addiction led to stealing $28,000 from his wife's retirement account in 2013 and, ultimately, taking $9.50 from his five-year-old son Colin's piggy bank in November 2014, triggering a suicidal crisis.
🧠 Gambling addiction causes the brain to release dopamine, similar to drug addiction, and the suicide rate for gambling addicts is 12 times higher than for other addictions.

Path to Recovery and Consequences
🏥 After an intervention where his family gave him an ultimatum, he chose 30 days of treatment and learned about the addict's brain, noting that 80% of gambling addicts eventually relapse.
⚖️ Following treatment, he faced the justice system and was sentenced to four months in jail, which became a turning point for reflection.
🤝 In jail, he connected with Scott, a heroin addict, finding mutual support that helped convince him of his own potential for recovery.

Redemption and Responsibility
🌟 After release in June 2015, he focused on actions over words, embracing the responsibility to help others struggling with addiction.
👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 He reconnected with Scott two months post-release, and two years later (in 2017), Scott reported being eight months clean with his wife, having regained custody of their two children.
👨‍👦 He made amends by sitting down with his son, Colin (now 13), to explain his past, including the jail time, emphasizing honesty and transparency in the family moving forward.

Key Points & Insights
➡️ Addiction thrives in shadows and secrecy; overcoming it requires radical honesty and letting actions speak louder than words.
➡️ Recovery involves a continuous responsibility to share the story to offer hope to others who may be listening.
➡️ Making amends is a continuous process; the speaker planned to repay his son the stolen $9.50, acknowledging the difficulty of confronting past betrayals.

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