Critique of Positive Thinking and Mental Contrasting
📌 The video discusses the book *Filosofi Teras* (The Stoic Philosophy), which offers classical Greek philosophy relevant for building mental resilience today.
🤔 Positive thinking can sometimes hinder achievement by tricking the mind into believing a goal is already met, leading to self-blame upon failure.
⚖️ Practice mental contrasting, which involves imagining the desired outcome while simultaneously anticipating potential obstacles, leading to better goal achievement than only focusing on positive thoughts.

The Dichotomy/Tricotomy of Control
🧭 A core Stoic principle is the Dichotomy of Control: focus only on internal aspects within our control, as worrying about external factors is wasteful.
✅ The concept is expanded to the Tricotomy of Control: things fully controllable (personal opinions, internal desires), things completely uncontrollable (other people's opinions, natural disasters), and things partially controllable (exam results, career outcomes).
💪 Focus efforts on the controllable aspects, like preparation and rest before an event (e.g., a thesis defense), as success results from a mix of controllable effort and uncontrollable circumstances.

Managing Negative Emotions
🛑 To handle negative emotions like anger or sadness, use the STAR technique: Stop the emotion immediately, Think and Assess the situation's validity and controllability, and then Respond rationally.
⏳ Do not dwell on the past; accept what has happened as unchangeable events (Amor Fati or loving one's fate).
🚫 Spending time wishing for different past situations robs the opportunity to enjoy and be grateful for the present moment.

Key Points & Insights
➡️ *Filosofi Teras* is recommended for beginners to Stoicism due to its simple, relatable, and often humorous writing style, incorporating personal anecdotes.
🧘 The philosophy is not a magic cure for all problems but a tool to develop a resilient mindset resistant to life's turbulent waves, fostering daily peace.
🕰️ Insights developed over 2,000 years ago remain highly relevant because fundamental human anxieties have largely remained consistent over time.

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