Career Transition and Layoff Experience
📌 The speaker, a software engineer in his mid-40s, was laid off from a big tech company after 25 years in the technology business, marking his first layoff.
💼 His career progressed from early coding and consulting roles to becoming a senior technical leader/enterprise architect, marked by work on cutting-edge technologies and securing patents.
💰 He experienced a significant salary increase around 7 years ago by switching to big tech, involving substantial compensation via Restricted Stock Units (RSUs).
😥 He proactively chose to be placed at the top of the layoff list to save the jobs of several more junior colleagues.

Reflections on Big Tech Work Life
🕰️ Downsides included long and odd working hours due to global team distribution, requiring very early mornings and late nights.
🧠 The need for constant learning of new languages and frameworks became significantly harder in the last 5 years, admitting he is slowing down in his mid-40s.
❓ A key internal factor for dissatisfaction was the feeling that the work being built often did not solve major world problems or make a meaningful difference.
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Significant time spent working meant limited personal time, sometimes only having an hour per weeknight with his children.

Motivation for Change and Future Outlook
📉 Extrinsic factors like changing interest rates, availability of offshore resources, and the emergence of AI tools reduced incentives for big tech companies to retain US employees.
💔 A colleague's unexpected death in his late 40s and his wife's recent health crisis highlighted the fragility of life and the potential futility of prioritizing corporate work.
🧭 The layoff created an inflection point, moving him from a known career track into an unknown state ("wilderness") where he must now structure a mentally and physically healthy life.
🙏 He is thankful for the adequate warning period and decent severance package provided by his former, good company.

Key Points & Insights
➡️ The 2008 financial crisis introduced the speaker to Financial Independence (FI) concepts, leading to a commitment to live frugally and save to "buy time freedom."
➡️ High compensation packages in big tech, especially through RSUs, must be balanced against the cost of time taken away from family and personal well-being.
➡️ The realization that even dedicated, talented employees can be quickly forgotten after departure (as demonstrated by the colleague "Jay") underscores the transactional nature of employment.
➡️ The current tech landscape, marked by mass layoffs and AI advancement, necessitates reassessment of career focus, regardless of prior success or skill level.

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